Reading List & Playlist

I like to read. I like to listen to music. It’s not all related to work, but these are some books and tunes that are particularly relevant to trying to figure out midlife.

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This was the book that started this whole thing off for me. Proof that what I was feeling was NORMAL - expected even. Economist Danny Blanchflower (formerly Bank of England) was one of the original authors of Happiness Curve research.

Book cover titled 'The Happiness Curve: Why Life Gets Better After 50' by Jonathan Rauch, with a quote at the top about the book's insights, and an illustration of a happiness curve on a yellow sticky note.
the happiness curve
jonathan rauch

A blueprint for life design. If you’re not familiar with design thinking principles, Burnett & Evans from the Stanford Design Lab expertly show you how they apply to designing the life you want.

Book cover of 'Designing Your Life' by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, featuring a light blue background with a colorful mosaic of small dots forming a circular pattern in the center, and a red seal indicating it as a number one New York Times bestseller.
Designing your life
Bill Burnett & Dave Evans

I love this book! Such an interesting proposition: pairs of people who’ve led near-identical lives up until a cliff edge, and then an examination of what they each did next and where it got them. I’ve loved Jim Collins’ research since ‘Good to Great’ - this is a truly unique study.

Book cover titled "What to Make of a Life" by Jim Collins, featuring a silhouette of a person standing on a red mountain cliff with a foggy landscape in the background.
what to make of a life
Jim collins

For me, the most effective approach to habit breaking and new habit forming. Whether it’s diet and fitness, productivity, or addictive behaviours this is a great template to follow to bring about real change in your life.

Book cover titled "Atomic Habits" by James Clear, describing it as a best seller and discussing building good habits and breaking bad ones, with an orange circle indicating over 25 million copies sold.

atomic habits
James clear

Everyone should take a sabbatical. And I’ve encouraged my adult kids to plan and save for one every 7-10 years. This book explains why and how you can do it.

Book cover for "Big Time Off: The Transformative Power of Sabbaticals and How to Take One" by DJ DiDonna, featuring a sky with clouds as the background.
big time off
dj didonna

the meaning of your life
arthur c. brooks

All of Arthur Brooks’ books are good. But this latest one is especially worthwhile if you struggle to define what meaning and purpose are to you.

Book cover titled "The Meaning of Your Life" by Arthur C. Brooks, with a background of concentric circles in beige tones.

This is a very blokey, very white playlist - that’s not intentional. Maybe that’s just who writes songs about dealing with midlife kind of stuff? The playlist is sort of ordered around the three phases of my Midlife Reimagined framework. If you want more info on why I chose them and the way they’re ordered, you can download some listening notes below.